Rich!!

"3000 dollars!"...demanded the girl...and the deal was settled. Mr Edward Lewis gave away that amount in lieu of a few days company of Vivian and no one who had ever watched the movie Pretty Woman could forget her excitement and radiant face!
Wo, wait up, this ain't a movie review, nay, not a 101 version of a Strike a Deal course.

The amount that seemed trivial to one was almost the deal of a lifetime for the other .
Again, I am not re-establishing that the value of papers printed with the faces of our national leaders and historical monuments are different to different people.
What's freaking is that the same equation remains true for all the spheres of one's being!
The transactions and the rules in the monetary world are similar to the ones in the physical, emotional, mental, intellectual, spiritual world and anywhere else you look around. And I encourage you to try and discover/rediscover the analogies.
We have the filthy rich amongst us, the hard working rich, we have the survivors, the costcutters, the bankrupts, the ones who are below the poverty line and so on and so forth.
More plainly said, we have people who have been pampered emotionally and thus live on a high always, we have people who had lost some and gained some and have understood the trick to be emotionally rich, are investing in the right places and are quadrupling their returns manifold. We have people who spend emotions way much more than they can ever earn and end up pretty much surviving the borderline of depression and serious emotional and mental issues everyday, somehow; we have people who are so weary saving and cost cutting that they don't spend any emotion at all. We have people who had a lot emotionally but had lost it all due to a bad deal or bad housekeeping and of course we have those who are completely at mercy of someone else to be fed emotionally!

But how is all this so similar and can a general answer be found for problems across multiple spheres?
You could say, it's all about resource sharing and since that's unequal, the matters lead to transactions and some end up rich and some poor. You could try and set rules/organisations/policies, trigger and popularise ideas based on socialism, capitalism, bureaucratism and what not. Speaking of which,can't the extended version of feminism be likened to emotional bureaucratism? If there's fight for equality, it should be for equality amongst all, not whites vs blacks or men vs women. The most referred yet non existent entities in these fights ultimately are colours and body parts. I mean, come on...I won't start having rainbow coloured periods (meaning quite an excited and exotic imagery of an imaginary high end status) if I establish that I am equal dimensioned as a man! And if someone doesn't understand the simple facts of equality, that doesn't err...let's spare the example. I mean,I will be just what I am inherently, not less, not more.
Well, coming back, the question is, how do we become rich or how do we become poor? More so, can we 'become' as in turn rich or poor or is it a certain quality in us that propels us either to wealth or to poverty?(or maybe the absence of it doesn't propel us at all, so we remain stagnant at one place!)
What if there's a DIY version of this quality available, ready to be assembled?
It's plain and simple emulation after that. But what/who will you emulate?
What/who is truly rich, truly generates infinitely over and beyond what he gives away, spends without a budget and yet without an iota of regret?
Smell a treasure hunt? I'd bet when you get the treasure, you'd wanna buy it with all you have coz you'd know it'd propel you towards all kinds of richness! Rise and shine alchemists!

Difficult............

What do you do when you deduce that something that you have experienced just now is something that you had not registered combating with before?

You struggle with some words to define your state of mind and a catchy yet sane statement to gist your experience but it constantly seems to freak you out.

Congratulations! You have reached a new challenge level in the game- Difficult.

Difficulty is faced by one and all in numerous walks of life and in zillion and one circumstances. It’s challenging for the mind to figure out the basic structure of difficulties during these circumstances.

Well, apparently, difficulties may seem as hardships or something burdensome but wait up; difficulties actually come in a brilliant camouflage.

Upon meeting a difficult situation/person/thing/whatever, the first ever bling alert that goes screaming in your head is: 'I don’t know what this is'. So, it must be something to do with prior knowledge of something, makes one prepared you see.

The next yelling statement is: 'I either don't have tools to address this or I can't find the tools to address this'. So, it must be something to do with absence or access to one's capabilities.

Beyond this, there can be three types of reactions:

Category A - 'I don’t like this and I don’t wanna do this'

Category B - 'I think I know just about a bit about this, let me try and start with that'

Category C - '----------------------'

Evidently, C is overwhelmed beyond the point of recovery. While A has clearly made his choice to jump off the trail, wherever the landing may be, in thin air or strong ground; B has decided to hold on, largely based on the truth/illusion that he's got a clue.

What all of them miss to spot is something what the camouflage of difficulty is made of. Let’s talk through this.

You’d agree that it's the time that makes something more difficult and something else not.

And you’d agree that trying times are merely difficult things happening constantly one after another. This statement is absolutely kiddish but think about it. What if I say, its time alone that makes a thing difficult? And what if you change the time itself?

Well, changing time may be distant but changing your sense of that time might be possible.

Sense of time depends pretty much on how you comprehend about the world around with your senses.

Your senses are directed also by your disposition and when you temporarily shift your disposition; you are actually able to shift time.

What we talked through is actually the decoding of difficulty.

When one is able to shift time, one is able to change disposition and in turn change senses and have a true perception about the world around and in turn finds that something difficult is actually manageable or easy!

By design, we have within us the inherent capacity to aptly respond to every situation, so a difficulty can then be reduced to reassurance camouflaged with time!

Reassurance that the tools to respond with are accessible within you and are operational.

That’s exactly what a child does...he is so reassured by just a pat from his mother that he loses the sense of difficulties even during utterly trying times of hunger, pain, loneliness, despair and fear.

The feeling of being absolutely grounded in someone triggers such a reassurance in him that he is just not bothered about the time and is able to tackle his difficulty better.

Don't believe it? Try remembering the number of times you used the word 'difficult' when you felt reassured constantly.

What does your reassurance look like…Self confidence? Spirituality? Religion? Fame? Family? Spouse? Friends? Entertainment? Vindication? Passion? Something that you haven’t figured out?

The closest you are to the truest and most lasting and bearing entity, the closest you are to reassurance.